MOTHER DIDN’T TELL ME BUT SHOULD HAVE ~

Never give any kind of pleasure to a boy you wouldn’t give yourself. Kiss like a promise and wait for the other person to break it.

Human beings are not ships; you cannot save them from sinking if they don’t want to be rescued from the floodwaters.

Loving someone that doesn’t give a damn about you isn’t sexy; it’s misplaced energy, also known as self-destruction.

Don’t ever treat anyone like a refugee from a civil war; they will come back from battle and leave you as wounded as if you were the one who had been paid for military service.

Forgiveness isn’t putting the weapon down; it’s learning how to kiss the person pulling the trigger, not just a quick peck on the cheek, but a full one with tongue. Let the dead be dead.

They have no answering machines, no phonelines: if you call them, only the ground will ring.

Never trust a boy who already has a pack of condoms ready in his coat pocket before he even asks your name. When the world tries to break your back with its weight, get a stronger spine.

Your father left us because he was ashamed for not being the one that gave birth to you.

Even oceans misplace their anchors sometimes.

Never “give a man permission.”

You shouldn’t have to.

It should be mutual.

Stop treating your body like currency don’t pay anyone who doesn’t deserve it.