Everyone has a past ~

You realize that things have gone wrong at your end but you are not suffering a huge blow to your self-concept.

On the other hand, in the second conversation it is evident how much of your self-concept is based on the unfortunate incident that happened with you.

It instantly labels you as a loser.

This is an adverse, distorted kind of reasoning which will not help you much to progress in life.

What is important then, is to get honest about your personal history.

Before you decide to step out of the prison of your past, you need to identify and challenge your internal rhetoric – the dialogues you have with yourself every day.

If your personal truth is riddled with doubts and anxieties, so too will be your internal dialogue: you’re not smart enough, good enough, you’re going to fail, and you’ll mess it up again.

These kind of haunting monologues get the loudest when you are going to make pivotal decisions of your love, life or career. When you are thinking about the qualities

And that’s ok too

In the final scenario it’s how you handle wasted drawbacks

All those wasted moments ” I’m not good enough” is called ” suffering ” . Treat those moments as a gift . ~ why you ask ~

Until you “suffer” you are an empty shell

Until you walk in those shoes how do you understand

Embrace suffering

Walk on with hope in your heart

Never look back

Humanity needs folk like you to set them free

Shalom 🕊️🕊️