SHALOM 😌

If you are in love with someone who cannot love you back now, please
understand that this is not a reflection of your worth.

Sometimes life weathers
People in different ways. We are all on this Earth just trying to figure ourselves
out, trying to mend the breaks in our souls, trying to deal with what is
heavy within us.

Sometimes, we’re ready, and another person is not.

Sometimes
We try, and another person does not.

Sometimes, we pour ourselves into another
human being, and they cannot contain all we are.

Sometimes, we fight, and
another person surrenders.

Occasionally, we choose to make things work, and
another person decides that they cannot determine that same reality.

And that is
okay.
Because at the end of the day, if someone does not meet you where you are, you
cannot keep asking them to do so.

If someone cannot reciprocate your love, if
someone cannot give you what you truly deserve, you have to understand that
aching for them to do so before they are ready is a form of self-destruction.

Your
the heart is a vast and tender thing.

You cannot keep trying to shrink it into what
someone else needs.

You cannot keep pouring your love into a vessel that cannot
contain it.

You cannot keep running your pet into a soul that has not opened
its eyes to all they are receiving.

You cannot keep flowing your passion into a
heart closed off.

It will only leave you empty. You have to walk
away.

You have to let this person grow on their terms because you can`t
love someone to their potential.

You can’t love someone into being ready.
They have to do that on their own

And yes, it is challenging to walk away from someone you deeply care
for.

It is so hard to lay all of that love down, to close your heart off to all that it
sees in another human being.

But walking away, you will learn how to pour all
the love you gave to the wrong person back into yourself.

And
you will learn how to pour it into all that you desire in life; you will learn how to
run it into your growth, art, and hope.

You will learn how to
stand up for your feeling and how to stand up for their value.

And when you teach
yourself that you deserve to be loved without having to beg for that love,
without having to chase it down, you open yourself to the kind of beauty
that chooses you just as freely as you desire.

You open yourself to the type of
people who see you and immediately know that you are rare and beautiful
thing.

You open yourself to new beginnings, to a future that unfolds in ways that
don’t hurt or break you down but rather build you up and show you just how
worthy you are of having your heart held

Shalom 😌